Three days after Allison came home from the hospital, Dr. Mehta called at 8:17 in the morning.
I remember the exact time because I was standing at the kitchen counter warming a bottle while Mateo made impatient noises from his bassinet.
Allison was asleep on the couch.
Rachel had gone home the previous evening after promising to return whenever Allison wanted her.
Teresa had started following the new rule: she called before coming over.
It sounded insignificant.
It was not.
The phone vibrated beside Allison's medication organizer.
Dr. Mehta.
I looked toward the couch.
For half a second, an old impulse appeared.
Answer it.
Get the information first.
Prepare Allison.
Protect her.
Then I remembered the promise I had made before surgery.
No soft version.
No deciding what she could handle.
I carried the phone to her.
"Allison."
Her eyes opened immediately.
Something about cancer had changed the way she woke. There was no slow return anymore. She seemed to surface already braced for news.
"What?"
"Dr. Mehta."
She stared at the screen.
Neither of us moved.
Mateo began fussing louder.
I picked him up.
Allison answered.
"Hello?"
I walked several steps away, giving her privacy without leaving.
Her face became still.
"Yes."
A pause.
"Okay."
Another.
I could hear Dr. Mehta's voice but not the words.
Allison reached for the notebook we had started keeping on the coffee table.
Not my notebook.
Ours.
That distinction had become important.
She wrote something.
Then stopped.
"What stage?"
My stomach tightened.
Silence.
Allison closed her eyes.
"Can you say that again?"
Another pause.
She wrote.
Stage II.
The handwriting was large enough that I could read it from across the room.
Mateo moved against my chest.
I held him tighter.
"Is the lymph node positive?" Allison asked.
Her face changed before Dr. Mehta finished answering.
"Okay."
She listened.
"Chemotherapy?"
A pause.
"How many?"
She wrote again.
Three cycles, possibly four.
I watched her underline something twice.
"When would we start?"
Another pause.
"That soon?"
Her voice cracked.
She turned away from me.
I stared at Mateo's dark hair.
Dr. Mehta continued talking.
Allison asked about fertility.
About the preserved ovary.
About breastfeeding.
That answer made her face collapse.
"What if I pump first?"
Silence.
"How much time do I have?"
I knew before she wrote it.
Not enough.
When the call ended, Allison kept the phone against her ear for several seconds after the line went dead.
Then she placed it carefully on the table.
I waited.
She looked at me.
"Stage two."
I nodded.
"One pelvic lymph node was positive."
I sat across from her with Mateo.
"They got the visible tumor."
"Okay."
"Margins are clear."
"That's good."
She flinched.
I immediately understood.
Not good.
Better.
There was a difference.
"They want chemo."
"When?"
"Ten days."
The number seemed impossibly short.
"Three cycles?"
"At least."
"What kind?"
She gave me two drug names I had heard only once before when Rachel described her treatment.
I repeated them.
Allison nodded.
"They think this type responds well."
I waited.
She looked down.
"They used the word curative."
That was the first genuinely hopeful word we had heard.
I felt relief surge through me.
I wanted to grab onto it.
Instead I watched Allison.
She was crying.
"What's wrong?"
The question came out before I could stop it.
She laughed bitterly.
"Besides cancer?"
"Sorry."
She wiped her cheek.
"I have to stop breastfeeding."
I looked at Mateo.
Allison had struggled to nurse since the birth. The emergency C-section, hospital separation, pain, and repeated procedures had disrupted everything.
She had pumped.
Supplemented.
Tried again.
Cried when Mateo refused to latch.
Celebrated when he finally did.
I had assumed feeding was a logistical problem.
To Allison, it was something else entirely.
"I know formula is fine," she said immediately.
"I didn't say anything."
"Everyone will say that."
I stayed quiet.
"I know millions of babies drink formula. I know fed is best. I know this isn't rational."
"It doesn't have to be rational."
She looked at me.
"I wanted one thing my body could still do."
There it was.
Not nutrition.
Choice.
Again.
Her body had become a series of things being taken.
Birth plan.
Recovery.
An ovary.
Certainty.
Now this.
"I wanted to feed him."
"You did."
"For ten days?"
"You fed him for ten days."
Her face crumpled.
"That sounds pathetic."
"It doesn't to me."
She pressed both palms over her eyes.
"I hate this."
I moved beside her.
She leaned into me.
Mateo squirmed between us.
For several minutes, we stayed like that.
Then Allison pulled away.
"What was the survival rate?"
I froze.
"What?"
"Dr. Mehta told me."
I had not heard that part.
Allison looked at the notebook.
"She said this tumor usually responds very well to treatment."
"Okay."
"But she gave me numbers."
I waited.
"Why did I ask for numbers?"
"Because you wanted information."
"I don't want it anymore."
I understood.
Statistics sounded objective until you were the person being reduced to one.
"Then don't look at them today."
"They're already in my head."
She tapped her temple.
"I keep imagining a room with a hundred women."
"Allison."
"Some walk out. Some don't."
I set Mateo in the bassinet.
Then I sat beside her again.
"You aren't a room of a hundred women."
"I know."
"You're one patient."
"I know."
"And Dr. Mehta is treating what you actually have."
She looked at me.
"That was almost reassuring."
"Almost?"
"Don't get cocky."
I smiled.
So did she.
The smile disappeared quickly.
"I need to tell Rachel."
"Do you want me here?"
"Yes."
She called.
Rachel answered immediately.
Allison gave her the pathology.
There was silence.
Then Rachel said, "Clear margins?"
"Yes."
"Only one node?"
"One confirmed."
"Stage two?"
"Yes."
Another pause.
"That's treatable."
Allison started crying.
Rachel did not say everything would be fine.
She said, "I know chemo is terrifying."
"I have to stop nursing."
Rachel went quiet.
"Oh."
That single syllable contained more understanding than any reassurance could have.
"I know it shouldn't matter this much."
"Stop doing that."
"Doing what?"
"Ranking your grief."
Allison wiped her face.
Rachel continued.
"You can be grateful the cancer is treatable and furious that treatment costs you something."
I watched Allison absorb that.
"How bad was chemo?"
She asked the question quietly.
Rachel did not answer immediately.
"Do you want the honest version or the useful version?"
"Both."
"The honest version is that some days were awful."
Allison closed her eyes.
"The useful version is that not every day was awful."
Rachel explained.
Infusion days.
Nausea medication.
Fatigue.
Metallic taste.
Hair loss.
Blood counts.
Good days between bad ones.
Things that had changed since her treatment.
Things worth asking the oncologist.
Allison listened differently when Rachel spoke.
Not because Rachel knew more than the doctors.
Because she knew what the words felt like after you went home.
When the call ended, Allison looked toward the kitchen.
"I want to freeze milk."
"Okay."
"As much as I can before chemo."
"Okay."
"Even if he only gets a little later."
"Okay."
She narrowed her eyes.
"You can say something besides okay."
"I am terrified of saying the wrong thing."
That surprised a laugh out of her.
"Fair."
I stood.
"I'll wash the pump parts."
"You hate washing those."
"I hate cancer more."
She looked at me.
"That was almost dramatic."
"I've had a difficult week."
She rolled her eyes.
I went to the sink.
The pump parts were complicated enough that I had previously pretended not to understand them.
That morning I washed each piece carefully.
Not because it was symbolic.
Because they were dirty.
That distinction had become important too.
Later, Teresa came by.
Allison told her the stage and treatment plan.
Teresa cried.
Then she stopped herself.
"I'm sorry."
Allison looked confused.
"For crying?"
"For making you feel like you need to comfort me."
Allison stared at her mother.
"Rachel talked to you."
"She did."
"Was she mean?"
"Extremely."
A reluctant smile appeared.
Teresa sat at the table.
"What can I do?"
Allison looked at me.
I said nothing.
She thought.
"Can you take Mateo during my first infusion?"
"Yes."
"Only if I decide I don't want him there."
"Okay."
"And I need meals that aren't casseroles."
Teresa smiled through tears.
"I can manage that."
"No giant meal train."
"Understood."
"No posting anything online."
"I wouldn't."
Allison raised an eyebrow.
Teresa corrected herself.
"I won't."
The conversation was awkward.
But honest.
That was better.
In the afternoon, I had my second therapy session.
Marcus asked what had happened since we last spoke.
"My wife definitely has cancer."
He nodded.
"I'm sorry."
"Stage two."
I waited for him to tell me it was encouraging.
He did not.
"How are you doing?"
The question made me uncomfortable.
"Fine."
Marcus waited.
I sighed.
"Terrified."
"Where are you putting that?"
"Here, apparently."
"Good."
I laughed once.
"I keep wanting Allison to tell me she'll be okay."
"Has she?"
"No."
"Why not?"
"Because she doesn't know."
"And what would asking her for reassurance require?"
I knew.
"Her pretending."
Marcus nodded.
I looked down.
"I've been doing that for years, haven't I?"
"Doing what?"
"Making her say things are okay so I don't have to tolerate them being unresolved."
Marcus did not answer for me.
He did not need to.
That evening, Allison and I ate pasta at the kitchen table while Mateo slept.
Halfway through dinner, she looked at the refrigerator.
"What?"
I asked.
She smiled strangely.
"This is where you asked me about dinner."
I stopped chewing.
"I remember."
"Feels like a year ago."
"It was ten days."
"Eleven."
Of course she knew.
I set down my fork.
"I still can't believe I said it."
"I can."
That hurt.
I noticed the defensiveness.
Underneath: shame.
I let it pass.
"I deserved that."
She looked at me.
"I'm not trying to punish you forever."
"I know."
"I need to be able to remember it without taking care of your guilt."
"I know."
She nodded.
Then she said, "I was going to leave the next morning."
I froze.
"What?"
"If the bleeding hadn't happened."
She stared at her plate.
"Mom was going to pick me up."
The room went very quiet.
"You had already decided?"
"For a while."
"Before Mateo was born?"
"I had a bag partly packed."
I felt as though the floor had shifted.
"Where?"
"In the nursery closet."
I thought about every time I had walked past that closet.
"You were really leaving."
"Temporarily."
"How temporarily?"
"I didn't know."
Fear surged.
She saw it.
I remembered Marcus.
Don't make her erase it.
I breathed.
"Okay."
Allison watched me carefully.
"You don't have to say okay."
"I don't know what else to say yet."
"That's fair."
We finished eating.
Later, I went into Mateo's nursery.
The closet door was open.
No bag.
Teresa had apparently taken it home when Allison returned to the hospital.
I stood there imagining my wife packing clothes while pregnant.
Planning an escape from a marriage I thought was basically fine.
Then I heard Allison behind me.
"I wasn't trying to punish you."
I turned.
"I know."
"I just couldn't imagine recovering from birth while doing everything."
"I know."
She leaned against the doorframe.
"If you hadn't asked about dinner, I still might have gone."
The truth hurt.
"But asking confirmed it."
"Yes."
I looked at the empty closet.
"What made you stay?"
She touched her abdomen.
"The hemorrhage."
Not me.
The medical emergency.
"I couldn't go anywhere."
I nodded.
"And then you changed."
"For eleven days."
"Yes."
She did not pretend that was enough.
I respected her for it.
"What happens after chemo?"
I asked.
She understood the real question.
"With us?"
"Yes."
"I don't know."
Fear again.
I let it exist.
Allison came closer.
"I don't want to decide while I'm sick."
"Okay."
"I don't want cancer trapping me in a marriage."
"Neither do I."
"And I don't want cancer ending one that might be fixable."
My throat tightened.
"So we wait?"
"We work."
The distinction mattered.
She reached for my hand.
"And then we decide."
I held hers.
Ten days remained before chemotherapy.
Three cycles, perhaps four.
Weeks of treatment.
Months of uncertainty.
And somewhere beyond all of that, our marriage waited for a verdict of its own.
For once, I understood that I could not demand the outcome.
I could only decide what kind of husband Allison would have evidence of when the choice finally became hers.
Click here to continue reading: PART 14: Allison Cut Her Hair Before Chemotherapy, and a Box From Teresa Revealed How Long Fear Had Been Shaping the Women in Her Family
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